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  • Tuesday, May 22 2012 6:18 PM EDT2012-05-22 22:18:42 GMT
    The past few weeks, I've been hitting the streets in Richmond and Henrico catching people on the spot who're willing to pay it forward with $300. Today, I return to where our Acts of Kindness journey began
    I asked Dori if she knew someone we could both pay it forward to. She told me about the friend who's like a second mom.
  • Tuesday, May 15 2012 5:31 PM EDT2012-05-15 21:31:52 GMT
    Sometimes it takes a village to pay it forward. I hit the streets in Henrico at the White Oak Shopping Village to find someone ready on the spot to pass on a $300 Act of Kindness. I was certain my
    I hit the streets in Henrico at the White Oak Shopping Village and met with Michelle Johnson, a bus driver with Henrico Public Schools.
  • Tuesday, May 8 2012 6:25 PM EDT2012-05-08 22:25:37 GMT
    Nominations for our $300 Acts of Kindness segment usually come via phone or e-mail. But for the next few weeks, I'm hitting the streets all around town, to catch people willing to pay it forward on the spot.
    Nominations for our $300 Acts of Kindness segment usually come via phone or e-mail. But for the next few weeks, I'm hitting the streets all around town, to catch people willing to pay it forward on the spot to someone in need or reward someone's good deeds.
  • Tuesday, May 1 2012 5:34 PM EDT2012-05-01 21:34:51 GMT
    After the sudden death of a Prince George police officer three weeks ago, loved ones wanted to honor her memory with an Act of Kindness for the people she called "her" heroes.
    After the sudden death of a Prince George police officer three weeks ago, loved ones wanted to honor her memory with an Act of Kindness for the people she called "her" heroes.
  • Tuesday, April 24 2012 6:28 PM EDT2012-04-24 22:28:17 GMT
    RICHMOND, VA (WWBT) - Sometimes family ties can test us in ways we never imagine. We're paying it forward to a bachelor who suddenly found himself being a surrogate parent to an active pre-teen, while
    We're paying it forward to a bachelor who suddenly found himself being a surrogate parent to an active pre-teen, while also caring for his own critically ill mother. His friend calls him a strong, inspiring role model who deserves an Act of Kindness.
  • Tuesday, April 17 2012 5:40 PM EDT2012-04-17 21:40:56 GMT
    We're paying it forward in Chesterfield to a woman her neighbor calls "the most compassionate caretaker." Not only is she managing her own family's serious medical issues, she's opened her home to displaced families and pets, and looks after kids around the apartment complex.
  • Tuesday, April 10 2012 5:57 PM EDT2012-04-10 21:57:21 GMT
    A knit hat warmed a local woman's "heart" so much, she tracked down the person who knitted it and nominated her for today's Acts of Kindness.
  • Tuesday, April 3 2012 8:05 PM EDT2012-04-04 00:05:02 GMT
    We're paying it forward to a woman who takes care of seven hundred children and dozens of adults several days a week. She's such a great asset to her school and everyone in it, she's been voted support staff person of the year several years in a row and today she's our Act of Kindness recipient. 
  • ACTS OF KINDNESS

    Tuesday, March 27 2012 6:25 PM EDT2012-03-27 22:25:37 GMT
    Lots of us remember an exceptional teacher who made us believe we could succeed at anything. Today a grandmother and cancer survivor is paying it forward to the educator she says has given her confidence that she absolutely will earn the diploma she's been longing for. Their teacher-student bond is this week's "Acts of Kindness."
  • ACTS OF KINDNESS

    Wednesday, March 21 2012 8:10 AM EDT2012-03-21 12:10:09 GMT
    In this week's Acts of Kindness, we pay it forward to someone who opened their heart and their home to one of our viewers.

RICHMOND,VA (WWBT) - At Virginia Union University, thousands of scholarship dollars have been awarded to deserving young women by the dedicated women of Ebony Ladies Incorporated. This group is committed to helping grade school girls in a public housing community reach their full potential.

Today one of their proudest program promoters is getting a $300 Act of Kindness.

In an introduction with the Ebony Ladies I learned about their 42 years of community service since 1969.

And for several years, their Selena program has been changing attitudes among young girls in Richmond's Gilpin Court community.

"Wanting to be better, wanting to do better in school, being able to communicate, being able to talk to people and tell people how they feel and us being available to listen," said Danise Harmon of Ebony Ladies.

The group holds twice monthly sessions tutoring girls in academics and mentoring in topics from self respect to teamwork to etiquette.

"Enrich the girls in table etiquette, health and beauty, money management, safety, fire safety in the home," said Harmon.

The Ebony Ladies all agree this program wouldn't be possible without the wife, mother and Gilpin community activist who makes sure the girls don't miss out on mentoring.

"We meet here at Virginia Union. Mrs. Pitchford actually walks them here and comes back in two hours and walks them back home," said Harmon.

Charlene Pitchford is an Ebony Lady ambassador and Gilpin resident.

"Because most of these young ladies may be that person at home in charge when mom's at work, Mrs. Pitchford assures that they have those life skills to be able to manage at home and at school," said Harmon.

Today we don't have to travel to pay it forward. Our leading lady arrives for what she thinks is an appreciation luncheon.

This Ebony Lady looked like she'd seen a ghost. She was jaw dropping, could hardly breathe and was absolutely speechless. For a moment, we thought she might surprise us and faint.

Having regained her voice, she explained her crusade in Gilpin Court.

"We want Gilpin Court to be on the map as number one, as a model for public housing," Pitchford said.

She says she has proof the Selena program works. Her daughters took part.

"They have a mind to go to college. They don't have a mind to want a handout, they want a hand up," Pitchford said.

She now wants to pay it forward and invest in more neighborhood programs. She has as much love for the Ebony Ladies as she does for girls growing up in Gilpin Court.

"I'm not ashamed of Gilpin Court, because Gilpin Court has made me what I am today. It is not where you live at, it's how you choose to live," said Pitchford.

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