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ACTS OF KINDNESS

Passing kindness to a man that lost several loved ones

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  • Tuesday, May 15 2012 5:31 PM EDT2012-05-15 21:31:52 GMT
    Sometimes it takes a village to pay it forward. I hit the streets in Henrico at the White Oak Shopping Village to find someone ready on the spot to pass on a $300 Act of Kindness. I was certain my
    I hit the streets in Henrico at the White Oak Shopping Village and met with Michelle Johnson, a bus driver with Henrico Public Schools.
  • Tuesday, May 8 2012 6:25 PM EDT2012-05-08 22:25:37 GMT
    Nominations for our $300 Acts of Kindness segment usually come via phone or e-mail. But for the next few weeks, I'm hitting the streets all around town, to catch people willing to pay it forward on the spot.
    Nominations for our $300 Acts of Kindness segment usually come via phone or e-mail. But for the next few weeks, I'm hitting the streets all around town, to catch people willing to pay it forward on the spot to someone in need or reward someone's good deeds.
  • Tuesday, May 1 2012 5:34 PM EDT2012-05-01 21:34:51 GMT
    After the sudden death of a Prince George police officer three weeks ago, loved ones wanted to honor her memory with an Act of Kindness for the people she called "her" heroes.
    After the sudden death of a Prince George police officer three weeks ago, loved ones wanted to honor her memory with an Act of Kindness for the people she called "her" heroes.
  • Tuesday, April 24 2012 6:28 PM EDT2012-04-24 22:28:17 GMT
    RICHMOND, VA (WWBT) - Sometimes family ties can test us in ways we never imagine. We're paying it forward to a bachelor who suddenly found himself being a surrogate parent to an active pre-teen, while
    We're paying it forward to a bachelor who suddenly found himself being a surrogate parent to an active pre-teen, while also caring for his own critically ill mother. His friend calls him a strong, inspiring role model who deserves an Act of Kindness.
  • Tuesday, April 17 2012 5:40 PM EDT2012-04-17 21:40:56 GMT
    We're paying it forward in Chesterfield to a woman her neighbor calls "the most compassionate caretaker." Not only is she managing her own family's serious medical issues, she's opened her home to displaced families and pets, and looks after kids around the apartment complex.
  • Tuesday, April 10 2012 5:57 PM EDT2012-04-10 21:57:21 GMT
    A knit hat warmed a local woman's "heart" so much, she tracked down the person who knitted it and nominated her for today's Acts of Kindness.
  • Tuesday, April 3 2012 8:05 PM EDT2012-04-04 00:05:02 GMT
    We're paying it forward to a woman who takes care of seven hundred children and dozens of adults several days a week. She's such a great asset to her school and everyone in it, she's been voted support staff person of the year several years in a row and today she's our Act of Kindness recipient. 
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    Tuesday, March 27 2012 6:25 PM EDT2012-03-27 22:25:37 GMT
    Lots of us remember an exceptional teacher who made us believe we could succeed at anything. Today a grandmother and cancer survivor is paying it forward to the educator she says has given her confidence that she absolutely will earn the diploma she's been longing for. Their teacher-student bond is this week's "Acts of Kindness."
  • ACTS OF KINDNESS

    Wednesday, March 21 2012 8:10 AM EDT2012-03-21 12:10:09 GMT
    In this week's Acts of Kindness, we pay it forward to someone who opened their heart and their home to one of our viewers.
  • ACTS OF KINDNESS

    Tuesday, March 13 2012 5:13 PM EDT2012-03-13 21:13:10 GMT
    Today we're paying it forward to a dynamic young CEO who is passionate about children, education and empowerment. She committed to nurturing future generations of local leaders and today a loyal supporter is making a three hundred dollar Act of Kindness investment.

By Sabrina Squire - bio | email

RICHMOND, VA (WWBT) – When a local man lost three members of his immediate family within weeks, immediately longtime friends in the Sandston Moose Lodge showered him with comfort.

Now they're showing him the money. Their compassion is this week's Act of Kindness.

"I saw it on the television, like I said, after all that he's been through, anybody needs an Act of Kindness, Mike needs an Act of Kindness," said Pat Stillete.

Stillete and fellow lodge member Biff Johnson say it's been a summer of sorrow for their longtime friend Mike.

"His whole family just went at one time, his wife, his mother and his father," he said.

They were heartbroken when Mike's wife of 20 years, Peggy, died in June.

"It was a shock to us when she died, even though she was in the hospital and she was sick, she was so young, oh yeah 43," he said.

In July, they were jolted by the death of J.T., Mike's favorite fishing and hunting partner.

"His dad was just visiting and had a massive heart attack and just died," Stillete said.

Four weeks later tragedy struck a third time with the death of Mike's mom, Ann.

"His mom died August 12," he said. "He was completely devastated at first, but it seems like to me now, he's just holding on, wouldn't you call it that?"

He's had little time to mourn, he's had to be strong.

"He's got a young daughter to raise, he's gotta do what he's gotta do, that's all he can do," Stillete said.

These friends say money's not Mike's main concern. The gesture is just a reminder, He can always count on them.

As we set off to meet Mike at his job, Biff tells me he's more than a friend, he's become another son.

"Yeah, he's a good boy, he really is, he's got a lot of heart, yeah a lot of heart," Johnson said.

We're meeting mike at the AutoZone, where he's a manager and Biff is a frequent customer.

So Mike's hardly surprised to see them, but he quickly learns it's not business as usual.

"I submitted your name for an Act of Kindness and I have $300 to give you," he said.

"Thank y'all, he said you're like a son to him, yeah, I've relied a lot on him, nah, I get a hug."

Mike tells me he's trying to take things one day of at time, but at times, it's tough.

Mike's been busy settling his parent's estate, finalizing the headstone he designed for his wife and focusing on being the best father he can be to 13-year-old Taylor, the child doctors said he and Peggy would likely never have.

"Then I got one and love her to death," Mike said. "And friends, she's got a whole lot of moms, she was our miracle child, she was our miracle child, ohh."

Mike says he won't keep the cash, he's passing it on to Taylor. "I think this is going straight into her savings account," he said.

Everything else he needs, he already has.

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